Breaking up advice can take many forms but after the tears and tissues, take the time for reflection and honoring the process of healing a broken heart.

Healing a broken heart is bested served by time and soulful reflection. Part of healing a broken heart may be the realization that you keep going down the same path again and again. And ending up in the same position of healing a broken heart yet once more.

Our breaking up advice? Get clarity on who and what you seek in a mate. Take the time for healing a broken heart and use this down time to clarify what you truly seek in a mate. This way you can chose wisely once you are ready to chance love again.

Breaking Up Advice ~ Exercise
Read this piece by Portia Nelson and consider if you are repeating the same relationship patterns again and again.

Hole In My Sidewalk

Our By Portia Nelson, Autobiography in 5 Short Chapters (aka: Our There's a Hole in My Sidewalk)

CHAPTER I
I walk down the street.
There's a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in.
I am lost.....I am helpless; it isn't my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

CHAPTER II
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don't see it. I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place;
but it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

CHAPTER III
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there. I still fall in....it's a habit.
My eyes are open. I know where I am. It is my fault.
I get out immediately.

CHAPTER IV
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

CHAPTER V
I walk down another street.


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