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Wedding Goddess: A Divine Guide to Transforming Wedding Stress Into Wedding Bliss
by
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway






A Goddess Is a Girl's Best Friend: A Divine Guide To Finding Love, Success and Happiness
by
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway






Create Your Romantic Resumé: A 30-Day Program to Transform Your Romantic Destiny
"The Romantic Resumé (e-mail) course helped me clarify what it is that I truly seek in a romantic relationship and what I bring to it. It asked questions that I hadn't thought to ask. I definitely recommend this course to others!"
- Karen, North Carolina





Find soul mate ~ Online Relationship Course


Find Your Spiritual Soul Mate: Transforming Your Romantic Destiny with A Romantic Resumé
Find Your Spiritual Soul Mate Are you ready to meet your soul mate? Let the romantic resumé show you how! Put a casting call out to the Universe for a co-star! This inspiring course guides and supports singles towards clarity in their quest for a healthy loving relationship. Be guided towards clarity about the love you desire while tapping into different spiritual tools to draw in your beloved.
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Evaluating Your Relationship M.O.
By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway


When looking for love, an honest assessment of your "relationship reality" is key to transforming your romantic destiny. You can't get to where you want to go until you know your starting point.

So it is important to:
  • Do a reality check of your mindset and basic beliefs about relationships.
  • Look at how your view has been shaped by relationships past.
  • Have a sense of what your hopes and dreams are when it comes to romance.
As you explore a new pathway to love, intimacy and partnership, it's important to know what you are really ready for and looking for today. For example, some people say they want to get married, when what they really want is to be proposed to or have a wedding. Some believe they are ready for true love, when they have yet to heal enough from a broken heart or pain from the last relationship. It could be that ultimately you want love, marriage and a baby carriage, but that in the immediate future it would serve you to focus on your own personal growth and healing; that you need to make yourself ready for love.


Edward Lewis: So what happens after he climbs up and rescues her?
Vivian Ward: She rescues him right back.
~ Pretty Woman movie (1990)


It could also be that your head is filled with certain images of what love is, or what it can be, that are based on unrealistic fantasies that you wouldn't even want to live out in real life, even if you could. For example, would you really want to be a princess trapped in a tower and rescued by a handsome prince? ...Or a toad that is transformed by one kiss from the "right girl?"

Everyone's needs, desires and motivations are personal and individual. Ask yourself: Are you up for a monogamy and commitment? Are you just interested in shopping around at the moment? Do you want to just have some fun and draw some "test drive" relationships so you can get "practice?" Do you want to be "in love", but not engaged in the reality of a day-to-day relationship? Do you know there is a difference? If true love knocked on your door, would you recognize the knock?

How Are You Hardwired?
Understanding your own wiring and how you view relationships is a first step in drawing in your true love. Your personal view of what a relationship is (can be, and has been) is as personal as a fingerprint. Until you identify it, it can be a subconscious road map that draws certain relationships to you - for better or for worse. Identifying your point of view brings it to light in your conscious mind and allows you to see your own relationship MO (modus operandi) and MS (mindset).

Your honest approach to the process of creating your Romantic Résumé will bring you closer to your ideal mate. And lead you onto a path that occurs naturally and at the "right" time for both you and your yet-to-be-known beloved. It gives you a chance to transform, evolve and make changes that make you more ready for real love.

Relationship Mapping
Mind mapping is a personal growth tool that lets you get inside your own head and see what you're thinking is on certain issues. "Relationship Mapping" is a great way to get a look at what's in your head about relationships -- and ultimately a way to help you get out of a relationship rut and into a good relationship!

Feeling ready to take a step closer to the soul mate you desire? I invite you to enroll in my online course Find Your Spiritual Soul Mate: Transforming Your Romantic Destiny with A Romantic Resumé and create your own relationship map this month.



Excerpted from Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway's popular course Find Your Spiritual Soul Mate. Copyright © 2003, 2006 Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway. All rights reserved.


Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway is Self Healing Expressions' resident Love and Romance guru. She specializes in helping people find true love, and in marrying soul mates once they find one another. Her new book is Wedding Goddess: A Divine Guide to Transforming Wedding Stress Into Wedding Bliss (Perigee Books, May 2005). Her Self-Healing Expressions course is Find Your Spiritual Soul Mate: Transforming Your Romantic Destiny with A Romantic Resumé.






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