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Create Your Romantic Resumé: A 30-Day Program to Transform Your Romantic Destiny
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For The Goddess In You:
Can't Hurry Love ... It Has Its Own Schedule

By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
summer, love, relationships, romanceometimes when the search for love takes a little longer than planned, we start to feel a little nervous. It is as if something is off track; as if we're running in a Love Marathon and having a hell of a time getting to the finish line. In times like that, feelings of fear begin to creep in and we often feeling like something is "missing." Some of us think we will run out of time, and miss the deadline for finding the right relationship.

In reality, it simply means your time just hasn't come yet.

I think anyone who is hoping for new love and begins to get a strong sense that something is "missing" in their lives is in the exact right place. They are poised at the portal of romance and love, feeling a readiness to let love in.

View Loneliness as an Indicator

If you are feeling lonely, filled with desire and longing to finally meet your soul mate, don't be afraid of these feelings; know that they are indicators that you are on the right path. One of the most important parts of the process of opening to a soul mate is that deep yearning you feel. That feeling that you'll just burst with desire if love doesn't come knocking on your door soon.

If you focus on getting your life together, instead of trying to quell the feelings of loneliness - or aloneness, that is what will make you ready for love. It could be that your true love is out there in the world, trying to get his/her act together or looking for a new job or completing ties with an old lover … and getting ready for you, his yet unknown love.

When your time comes, it will all change in an instant-which is why it is so important for you to do anything else you might need to get yourself ready for love. Then, just go on leading a fabulous life. Be present in your own life, so that you are completely awakened, aware and ready when true love comes. Being alone at this moment in time does not equal failure, nor does it signal that love will never come or that you are running out of time. Open your heart, relax and say a prayer, every night, for 30 days, asking for true love and the perfect relationship for you.

Relationship Advice on Loneliness:

How To Utilize and Honor Your Yearning To Be With Your Soul Mate.

If you are feeling lonely, filled with desire and longing to FINALLY MEET YOUR SOUL MATE, congratulations! You are in the exact right place. Don't be afraid of these feelings; know that they are indicators that you are on the right path. One of the most important parts of the process of opening to a soul mate is that deep yearning you feel. It's the hunger to be in the embrace of your beloved that gives you the feeling of loneliness. It brings up fears, sadness, questions, and self-inquiries that are designed to further illuminate your path. Yearning -- and owning up to that feeling -- is what brings you closer, because it presses you to look deeper into yourself for answers rather than looking externally. It is important to:
  • Use this period of yearning as a time for inner work and exploration. Try not to jump off into the external activities and "fillers" that distract you from doing the inner work that is getting you ready for your soul mate.
  • Surrender to that "aching." It's okay to ache for love. Don't hide from it in drinking, over-eating, compulsive shopping, compulsive "doing," and running around looking for ways to stay busy.
  • Stay with it. Try not to fill your dance card up with dates with people who you know are not right for you. Don't date just for the sake of dating.
  • Use this time sit back and just allow the energy of transformation to sweep through your life and heal those things that would be in the way of your love relationship with your soul mate.
  • Own the conflicts and fears, because they will help you break through to a higher ground. Remember, it's on the higher ground where your soul mate is also searching for you!


Copyright © 2003 Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway. All rights reserved. If you are interested in publishing this article, please email .


Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway is an interfaith minister and non-denominational wedding officiant. She is creator of Create Your Romantic Resume: A 30-Day Program to Transform Your Romantic Destiny, available only through www.selfhealingexpressions.com and is author of many books, including A Goddess Is A Girl's Best Friend: A Divine Guide To Finding Love, Success and Happiness (Perigee Books, December 2002). For more information, contact Rev. Laurie Sue at www.goddessfriends.com.


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About Rev. Laurie Sue's Love Project


The Romantic Resumé is a 30-day Self-Healing Expressions e-mail course, which guides you towards clarity about the love you desire, as well as, provides many spiritual tools to draw in your beloved.
  • Evaluate and be guided on how to liberate yourself for new love by releasing past relationships.
  • Learn an alternative approach towards love, while examining the traits you value in your "ideal" mate -- from the physical, to the practical, to the spiritual.
  • Deeply explore your preference on issues such as living habits, religion, work styles, finances, compatibility, commitment, and personality -- to name a few.
  • Learn meditations, affirmations and prayers for drawing in your soulful love.
  • Ultimately, you will gain clarity on many issues you probably hadn't considered before.
Finally, in a surprisingly simple manner, pull together this newfound clarity to create your own personalized Romantic Resumé - thereby planting the seeds for the romance of a lifetime. Enroll now to start your personal love project!


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