by
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
by
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
"The Romantic Resumé (e-mail) course helped me clarify what it is that I
truly seek in a romantic relationship and what I bring to it. It asked questions that
I hadn't thought to ask. I definitely recommend this course to others!"
- Karen, North Carolina
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Spiritual Dating ~ Spiritual Singles seeking to find soul mate
"Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it."
~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Attn Spiritual Singles: Beginning Your Journey towards Your Soul mate
By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Excerpt from her online course
Finding Your Spiritual Soul Mate
As you embark on a journey towards your soul mate, it is important to get off to a good start by looking at ways to attain the greatest value and experience from this
Finding Your Soul Mate course,
as well identifying the mindset and approach most likely to bring true love knocking at your door.
- Make this "Love Project" a priority. Approach finding true love with the enthusiasm and dedication you would put into finding a terrific job.
- Stay focused. Keep this process, and your desired outcome, in your consciousness. Get into it and make it part of your life. Let a loving relationship be the last thing on your mind when you go to sleep and wake up in the morning with a love in your heart. Allow this experience to become part of your cellular make up; it is a precursor to going to bed and awaking with your true love in your arms. The way to effect deep change is to embrace transformation fully; and let it take roots in your being.
- Set aside time every day for focusing on a loving relationship. Even on days when you cannot participate fully, or do
the exercises,
make all attempts to read the day's lesson. When you can't for some reason keep up, spend ten minutes each day doing something that moves your love project forward. This can be anything -- a prayer, a meditation, a daydream or, even, watching some attractive person walk across the room and noticing what you like about him or her.
- Catch up soon as you can. If you can't focus on your love project in some way daily for 30 days, do as much as you can, as consistently as you can. Even if it takes more than a month to finish the program, ongoing focus keeps the energy flowing.
- Honor your yearning and desire for love. Yearning is a good thing. It is natural to long to meet the mate of your dreams. This is a sign that you are getting ready for love. Use the energy of yearning to motivate yourself toward the love you want and to change your life so that a new possibility for loving can be born.
- Don't hurry love. The last thing you want is to end up in the same love boat you were sailing in prior to
this course!
Be careful not to get so wrapped up in the urge to merge that you "jump" into a relationship hoping you have found "the one." You could end up jumping back into an old pattern if you do not give yourself enough time. It's fine to meet, date, and connect with others while you work through the
Romantic Résumé process,
but you should feel no pressure to seal any romantic deals. Instead, utilize your experiences in the world, as well as any dates you may have, as "research" and "discovery" that help bring even more clarity to this project.
- Tell yourself the truth.
This entire program
is designed to shine a light on what is true and authentic for you personally. The things you write are for your eyes only.
- Be organized and reverential. You can derive more value from this experience if you approach it in an organized manner, and treat it as a sacred experience.
This course is designed to help you adopt a new approach,
create a new structure, develop a new capacity, and design a new life. If you were building a new business you would want it to be as strong, secure and as blessed as it could be. That is the energy you want to now apply to your romantic life.
Transformation is a process. Like the beautiful butterfly that begins as a caterpillar, it is so important to honor the nature of change in your life. You may be anxious to meet your true love, and maybe even antsy to get to the end of
this course.
There may be a time period between the start and finish of this course, and beyond, where you find yourself in a stage of incubation. That is because when you are in the process of transformation you do not always see the transformation that is occurring; and sometimes you feel as if nothing is happening.
In fact, you may be the last person "to know" that your life has truly changed! In the days that follow, you may feel as if nothing is happening but in truth everything is happening! Like the caterpillar that is to become the beautiful butterfly, you can find great power in surrendering to the process of evolution. As you
clarify your dreams,
your heart will open to love and your soul will bring you closer to the person who will be your mate.
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